Showing posts with label Reading Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Reading Life. Show all posts

23 Jun 2025

How I Organize My Reading Life: Trackers, Tools & TBR Chaos (Discussion)

23 June 11 Comments

How I Organize My Reading Life: Trackers, Tools & TBR Chaos

Let’s be honest: I read a lot. Between advanced reader copies (ARCs), books I’ve bought, and the ones that somehow sneak into my life without warning (looking at you, library holds), it can be a lot to manage.


Over the years, I’ve figured out a system that helps me stay on top of everything without taking the joy out of reading. It’s part structure, part chaos—and 100% mine. Here’s how I keep my reading life organized.


My Primary Reading Tracker

At the center of my system is a massive spreadsheet that tracks everything I read, plan to read, and acquire throughout the year. I’ve refined it over time to match my habits.


And yes, it’s colour-coded, formula-filled, and beautifully overwhelming.


Some of the key tabs in my tracker include:

📖 Read: Every book I finish is logged with dates, ratings, author identity tags, format, genre, where I got it from, and more.

📥 ARCs: I keep a running list of every ARC I’ve received, whether I’ve read/reviewed it, and what platform it came through.

🗂 TBR: This helps me track what’s still waiting on my shelves and what I’ve recently acquired. (No, I don’t want to talk about how long that list is.)

📊 Yearly Stats: Automatically pulls data from the rest of the sheet so I can track metrics like total pages, reading time, average ratings, author demographics, and more.

In 2025 so far, I’ve read 53 books, totaling 6,460 pages and over 432 hours of reading—across multiple genres, age categories, and formats.


This spreadsheet is how I make sense of it all. It helps me set goals, spot patterns, and keep myself accountable—especially when I want to spotlight underrepresented voices or focus on Canadian SFF.


Digital Tools I Use Every Day

In addition to the spreadsheet, I use:


The StoryGraph: I track my reading progress here and love that it shows content warnings, mood, pace, and rep tags. I mostly use it to monitor what I feel like reading next and to build recommendations.


Be my friend on StoryGraph!


Google Calendar (lightly): If there’s a book with a firm review date, blog tour, or ARC deadline, it’s in here. I like to visually see my “review due” weeks so I can spread them out.


My Book Journal

While my spreadsheet holds the hard data, my book journal is for the feelings. I use it to:

  • Jot down quotes I love
  • Record my emotional reactions in real time
  • Keep lists of tropes, vibes, and aesthetic details I want to remember
  • Brainstorm review points (especially if I’m reading more than one book at once)

It’s messier than my spreadsheet—but way more personal.


How I Manage My Reading Time

People often ask how I read so much, and the answer is: I make time for it, but I also track it.


I log my reading time daily (to the minute) in my tracker.


I often read in “transition moments” like before bed, during lunch, or while waiting for a meeting to start.


Audiobooks help me read while doing things like dishes, driving, or walking, so a lot of that 430+ hours is multitasked.


But I’m also really intentional. If I’m tired, I don’t force it. If I’m not into a book, I DNF. If I’m overwhelmed, I pause all reading commitments. My spreadsheet tracks the goals, but it doesn’t rule me.


The Chaos: My TBR

Yes, I have a TBR list. No, I’m not following it exactly.


I use it more like a “books I could reach for” pile than a strict schedule. Some I’ve bought. Some are from publishers. Some have been on the list since 2021 and just keep vibing there. But having it all listed in one place helps me rotate between genres, formats, and priority reads—without forgetting about the ones I was excited for months ago.



Tips for Organizing Your Own Reading Life

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, here’s what I recommend:

  • Start simple. Track only what matters to you: pages, ratings, authors, or whatever you want to know at the end of the year.
  • Keep a low-pressure TBR list. Think of it as “books I’m interested in,” not “books I must read now.”
  • Use categories (genre, format, rep) to diversify what you’re picking up.
  • Make time, but don’t make it a chore. Reading is supposed to add to your life not feel like another productivity metric.


Let’s Talk About It

Do you track your reading? Are you spreadsheet-obsessed like me or more of a “vibes and vibes alone” kind of reader?

Tell me how you stay organized (or don’t!) in the comments.

16 Jun 2025

Books and Burnout: How I Fell Back in Love With Reading (Discussion)

16 June 2 Comments

Books and Burnout: How I Fell Back in Love With Reading

There’s a certain irony to feeling overwhelmed by books when you love them so much.


Reading is my safe space. My escape. My favourite form of connection, discovery, and challenge. But over time, that joy started to feel like a checklist. A deadline. A pressure. And I know I’m not alone in that.


This post is about what it’s like to hit reading burnout, especially as a book reviewer, and how I slowly, gently found my way back to loving reading again.

When Reading Stops Feeling Fun

As a book blogger, I’ve been lucky to receive advance copies, work with publishers, and have a platform to share what I love. But with that comes a constant pull to keep up. There’s always a new release to highlight. A review to write. A post to draft.


There was a point (and maybe you're in it now) where I realized:

  • I hadn’t picked a book just because I wanted to in weeks
  • I was reading books I wasn’t excited about, just to check a box
  • I felt guilty when I wasn’t reading
  • I was dreading writing reviews, even for books I enjoyed
  • I was overwhelmed with choice and deadlines, feeling like I had no agency over my reading life.

Reading had become a chore, and even though I was surrounded by incredible stories, I felt… disconnected. That was my reading burnout.


How I Started Rebuilding My Reading Life

Coming out of burnout wasn’t about reading more. It was about reading differently. Here are some of the small but powerful changes I made.


1. I Gave Myself Permission to Read Whatever

I stopped reaching for ARCs or buzzy titles and picked up books I’d owned for years or comfort rereads. No pressure, no deadline—just something that felt easy.

This year, that book was Witchlings by Claribel A. Ortega.


I picked it up on a whim after weeks of feeling stuck—half-reading books I wasn’t connecting with, abandoning ARCs that felt like work, and staring at my shelves feeling nothing. But the moment I started Witchlings, I remembered what it felt like to be swept away.


The world was whimsical but grounded, full of warmth and danger in equal measure. Seven Salazar’s journey as a Spare trying to prove her worth in a system that underestimated her echoed something I didn’t know I needed. There’s something profoundly comforting about reading a story where friendship, bravery, and magic are enough to fight back against unfair systems.


It wasn’t just a book I enjoyed. It was a reminder: that reading can still feel like wonder. That stories still have the power to reach through the fog of burnout and say, “Hey. You’re still a reader. And you still love this.”

 

2. I Let Myself Read Slowly (or Not at All)

Some weeks, I read one chapter. Some, none. I removed the expectation that I had to read daily. When I did pick up a book, it felt like a choice again, not a job.

3. I Switched Up Formats

Audiobooks, novellas, graphic novels. Really anything that changed the pace helped. It reminded me that “reading” doesn’t have to mean a 500-page epic fantasy every time.

Palette cleansers were also really good for this! I found books that were comforting to me that I knew would make me happy every time I read that genre.

4. I Stopped Forcing Reviews

Not every book needs a full blog post. Sometimes I’d just share a quick sentence or rating. Sometimes… I didn’t say anything at all. And that was okay. Of course, I still reviewed my ARCs, but some of the other books? I just said nothing about them at all.

Book Reviewing and Burnout

Reviewing books adds a whole other layer. If you’re like me, it’s not just about reading for fun—it’s also about content. That can start to shape how you experience books.


You might start asking:

  • “Is this quote review-worthy?”
  • “How can I talk about this on Instagram?”
  • “Will this appeal to my audience?”


And while all of that is part of the gig, it can also take you out of the story. That’s when I knew I had to recalibrate. Not every book needed to be “content.” Some just needed to be mine.


I used to think I had to review everything I read, especially if it was an ARC or a “big” title getting a lot of buzz. I felt pressure to stay ahead, to be useful, to be relevant. But trying to keep that pace meant I was always behind, and instead of feeling inspired, I felt drained.



What helped me shift was narrowing my focus. I started prioritizing reviews for books that aligned with what I actually care about: inclusive, diverse stories, especially from Canadian and  marginalized authors in the science fiction and fantasy space. That focus became an anchor. I wasn’t trying to review everything, just the stories that added something meaningful to the conversation.


I still take on ARCs, but now I ask myself: Does this book reflect the kind of reading life I want to have? Will this review help someone find a book they feel seen by? And sometimes the answer is no and that’s okay. I don’t owe anyone a reading pace that burns me out.


Letting go of that expectation helped me reconnect with why I review in the first place. And now, when I do sit down to write, it’s with purpose, not pressure.

 

How I Prioritize Reading Now

Reading still matters to me. Deeply. But I approach it differently.
Here’s what I do now to keep the joy intact:
  • I build reading time into my routine. Not as a to-do list, but as a transition moment from work to personal life.
  • I plan less in advance. My TBR is more vibes-based than a strict schedule.
  • I read based on mood, not pressure. If a book doesn’t grab me, I set it aside with no guilt.
  • I remind myself that it’s okay to take breaks. From books. From posting. From “keeping up.”

This slower, more intuitive rhythm has brought back the spark I was missing. And it’s made reviewing feel enriching again instead of exhausting.

Let’s Talk About It

Have you experienced reading or reviewing burnout?

What helped you come back to reading? What are you still struggling with?

Whether you're a casual reader or a content creator, your reading experience matters. And it’s okay to need a break from something you love.

💌 I’d love to hear your story in the comments or link me to a book that helped you fall back in love with reading.

9 Jun 2025

What Makes a Good Book Review? A Guide for Thoughtful Readers (Discussion)

09 June 2 Comments

Writing Book Reviews—Tips and Tricks

Book reviewing can feel intimidating. Whether you’re sharing thoughts on Goodreads/StoryGraph, Instagram, your blog, or just texting a friend, it can be hard to know where to start or how much detail is too much.

As someone who’s written hundreds of reviews, been reviewing over the last ten (10) years, and built a platform around sharing my reading life, I’ve developed a process that balances honesty, nuance, and clarity.

Here's my take on what makes a good book review and how you can write one that reflects your voice and experience.

What is a Book Review For, Anyway?

Before we dive into structure, it's important to understand your purpose:

  • Are you helping others decide if they’ll enjoy a book?
  • Are you reflecting on your own reading experience?
  • Are you trying to spotlight an author, theme, or equity-deserving group's voice?

Great reviews do at least one of these things, but the best ones often do all three.

The Building Blocks of a Strong Review

Here are the essential elements I aim to include in every post:

1. Your Reaction, Not Just a Recap

A plot summary isn’t a review. You can reference what the book is about, but readers are here to know what you thought of it.

✅ Tip: Weave in summary through your opinion.
Example: “The enemies-to-lovers dynamic in this sci-fi romance made for great tension, but I wish it had taken more time to develop before the relationship turned romantic.”

2. Talk About the Craft

Was the pacing tight or meandering? Did the worldbuilding immerse you or leave gaps? How about the prose: clunky, purple, or poetic? This shows you’re engaging critically, not just emotionally.

3. Highlight Characters and Their Growth Arcs

Did the protagonist change in a satisfying way? Were the characters believable, complex, relatable? Or were they flat, overdone, unlikable (and not in a fun way)? Bonus points if you can articulate why.

4. Representation & Content Warnings

If a book features equity-deserving groups identities, note how well they were handled (and by whom). Also, offer a heads-up for anything potentially distressing—it's helpful, not spoilery.

✅ Tip: Research the books your reading, read diversely, and look to reviewers from that equity-deserving group for advice.
Example: “Features queer rep and an aro-ace character; includes grief, death of a parent, and on-page panic attacks.”

5. Star Ratings: Optional But Helpful

I use a 5-star scale (with quarter stars!), but numbers aren't everything. Explain why you gave the rating you did as it helps people align with your taste, even if they don’t share it.

My Review Structure (And Examples)

Here’s how I typically organize my reviews:

Hook or Quick Impression

A single sentence that captures the vibe or how I felt. Looking especially at some of those tropes or ways that the author sets the scene and vibe.
✅ Tip: Use descriptors that match the setting overall, creating an ambiance for the reader.
“This was haunting, poetic, and slow in the best way.”

Contextual Details

Always include where you got the book, especially if it's an advanced copy. But also mention things like library, hype train, etc. and why that matters or doesn't (see: The Wedding People by Alison Espach review I did!)

Thematic Discussion

What themes stood out? What questions did the book ask or answer? Did it provide any new insights into a trope or subvert your expectations?

✅ Tip: Read widely to know how tropes are typically used and what may be a "subversion" of a trope.
In most Chosen One stories, the hero discovers a hidden destiny and is reluctantly thrust into greatness (think The Hunger Games and Percy Jackson). But in The Fifth Season by N.K. Jemisin, Essun’s powers are feared, not celebrated, and the world actively punishes magic users. Instead of being uplifted, the “Chosen Ones” are controlled. That’s a powerful subversion and recognizing it lets you comment on how the book critiques traditional power narratives rather than reinforcing them.

Characters & Relationships

Who stood out and why? Was the romance compelling? Did I root for them? Did they have good growth within those relationships? Or was the relationship muted just to move the plot along?

Critiques

I try to be honest without being harsh. It's okay to say, “This didn’t work for me,” especially when explaining why. (But also, if you need to rant, RANT. It's helpful for people to know if a book isn't good.)

✅ Tip: Be honest, not harsh. Critique the book, not the author.
Instead of writing: “The writing was terrible and the characters were annoying.”
Try: “I struggled with the pacing. The first half felt slow with lots of internal monologue, which made it hard to connect with the characters. I wanted more development in their relationships before the emotional climax, which felt rushed in comparison.”

This shows what didn’t work and why, giving helpful context for readers who might feel differently or be drawn to those elements.

Final Thoughts & Rating

A conclusion that ties it together with a star rating (or not!). Focusing especially on who I would recommend the book to if it's something that has a particular vibe.

Things I Try to Avoid

❌ Spoiling major plot points without warning
❌ Not including important disclaimers about when something isn't handled properly
❌ Comparing every book to another author’s work
❌ Letting personal bias overtake thoughtful critique
❌ Being vague (e.g., “It was boring” without context)

Finding Your Reviewing Voice

  • Write how you speak—formality isn’t required.
  • Use bullet points if full paragraphs feel daunting.
  • Not every review has to be in-depth; short reactions are valid.
  • Create a review template (and use some of my tips!) to get started.
  • Figure out your audience: are you posting on Goodreads/StoryGraph, Instagram, your blog?
    • There may be different ways to review depending on where you're reviewing!

How do you review books? What should I include in my reviews that you'd like to see more of?